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. . The request for more information about D/s contracts is one of the most prevalent received here . In response: a page dedicated to Lifestyle Contracts.     Contracts are agreements even if only for a scene, even if only verbal meetings of the mind. While Lifestyle contracts may not be legally binding, they are useful as an agreement in spirit and to help define what expectations are on each side. Wickipedia offers an outline of BDSM contracts    They say necessity is the mother of invention. Back in 2000 a friend of mine on the East coast was considering working with a Dominant and we discussed at length, concerns for terms of involvement. From that came a contract she offered. I've included a version of it here. - Vanilla-Not Agreement - It is modified from the one Molly and Phillip offered in Screw the Roses.      In a seminar I attended in 2002, BDSM author and publisher Race Bannon spoke about contracts. He suggested that they are best in a new relationship if they are for short terms and renewable. If they don't go into pages upon pages of specific details but cover generally what is expected.      Agreements between people should be about what those two people decide will work for themselves. I often suggest people sit down and write what they want, desire, require, and will not tolerate, then work out an agreement from those lists. So what is offered here is just a peek into other peoples notions of living and cooperating.     This table and the comments were first inspired by a respected Texas Lifestyle couple Master Jim / slave marsha, after they spoke to my local community about contracts back in the late 90's. Master Jim and slave marsha served as International Master and slave 2002, and have been speaking around the country in that capacity. I was honored to be present in the community that presented him his leather Master's cap a few years back. If you can see them don't miss the opportunity. One other very good page about D/s contracts is hosted by my friend Lord Colm on His CastleRealm site. ___ Sources for Sample Contracts Title  Location  Comments Wikipedia Contract BDSM defining the BDSM Contract & elements Initial Agreement of Service  Internet: Vanilla-Not Agreement  written by DaddyJ based on the Screw the Roses Agreement Temporary Contract of Consensual Ownership Internet: Leather n Roses  Basically a sexual play and "pleasure" based agreement of service. Male Dom / Female Domme samples Internet: BDSM Circle  avariety of sample contracts Elements of a "Good Slave Contract. Internet: Alt submission.com  one perspective of what constitutes elements of a good contract. Slave Contracts: Before you Sign What You Need to Know things to consider before you pick up the pen. Contracts in Lifestyle Books Agreement of Service Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns  on Page 66: a general contract that addresses both sexual service and emotional / spiritual caring as well.   Consensual Slave Contract  Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual  p.60 mostly behavioral standards; very little on the philosophy of the relationship   Master Morgan & Leahs Contract The Loving Dominant  Page 317 A very general contract  Sir Spencer's & M's Contract  The Loving Dominant  Page 319 A contract that reads like vows See also our Negotiations page

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