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Here
is a sample contract I composed for/ with a friend who was considering
service with a new partner on a trial basis. It is a modificiation
of an agreement found in Screw the Roses.
Initial
Agreement of Service
i, ________________________, with a
free mind and an open heart; do request that
_______________________ accept the submission of my will unto
this Dominant and to take me into this Dominant's care and guidance,
that we may work together in trust and mutual respect.
The satisfaction of the Dominant's
wants, desires, and whims are understood to be consistent with
my desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to him. To that
end, i offer, use of my time, talents, and abilities.
Further, i ask, in sincere humility,
that, as the Dominant, the care of my body be accepted for the
fulfillment and enhancement of our sexual, spiritual, emotional,
and intellectual needs.
i ask to be guided in sexual, sensual,
or scene-related behavior, in such a way as to further my growth
as a person.
i ask that extreme care be given
to clean and safe involvments with regards to bodily contact regarding
all manner of Sexually Transmitted Diseases and all forms hepatitus
and other infection. Afore mentioned Dominant will insure proper
safety precautions as suggested by leading health and lifestyle
organizations will be employed.
my body is given to the Dominant
to use for my growth but that submission is granted voluntarily
and does not extend rights for others to have intimate contact
at all. Also this agreement does not grant third parties permission
to casual or sensory contact without all parties agreeing to prenegotiated
limits.
i request of _______________________,
as my Dominant, to use the power vested in this role; to mold
and shape me; assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence,
and being.
In return, i agree:
To obey given commands to the best
of my ability. But to also use and have honored, safe words and
signals when the Dominant should be alerted of unexpected concern
or discomfort or my need to slow down or stop with any given involvement.
To strive to overcome feelings of
guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my
capability to serve, and limit my growth as a submissive.
To maintain honest and open communication
and be treated with nothing but the same.
To strive to reveal my thoughts,
feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.
To inform clearly, of wants and
perceived needs, recognizing, that the Dominant may choose to
decide whether or how these shall be satisfied.
To strive toward maintenance of
a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations
and goals.
To work in this agreement become
a happy and self-fulfilled individual.
To work against negative aspects
of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with
advancement of these aims.
my granting of submission is done
with the knowledge and agreement that nothing asked of me will
demean me as a person, and will in no way diminish my own responsibilities
toward making utmost use of my potential.
In recognition of my family obligations,
nothing will be required of me that will in
any way damage or harm my children, or my family, nor interfere
with the performance of my duties as mother. This includes honoring
and protecting my privacy.
my body is offered for growth and
experience but it's image and visage do remain my own. As a parent,
i cannot permit any video tape, film or digital photography to
be permitted in any manner even with the strictest of controls.
As my Dominant and primary caretaker you agree to insure this
and protect me from this when i am unable to do so myself.
In recognition of my employment
obligations, nothing will be required of me that will in
any way damage or hinder, nor interfere with the performance of
my employment duties.
As W/we enter into this agreement
in good faith with good intent, i will not be asked to conceal
any of the nature of our interactions from professionals including
medical or mental health care professionals or any trusted Mentor
i may choose to confide in.
We agree i will be given audience
on a regular basis with permission to speak freely at designated
intervals, and those words to be regarded without judgement or
penalty.
This i, _______________________,
do entreat, with lucidity and the realization of what this means,
both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer will
be understood in the spirit of faith, caring, and esteem in which
it is given.
Should either of us find that our
aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find
this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to
cancel, either may do so by written notification to the other,
in keeping with the consensual nature of this agreement.
W/we both understand that cancellation
means a cessation of the control stated and implied within this
agreement, not a termination of our relationship as friends. Upon
cancellation, each of us agrees to offer to the other his or her
reasons and to assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly.
This agreement shall serve as the
basis for an extension of our relationship, committed to in the
spirit of caring and consensual dominance and submission with
the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting
health and happiness, and improving both our lives.
This being our first exploration,
we agree to work in the spirit of this document for the term of
30 days from the date of signature below. Renewal of such commitments
should not be assumed without a new written document of this nature
entered into during the last week of the original term of this
agreement.
i offer my consent to submission
to ______________________________ under the terms stated
above on this the ________ day of _____________ in the year ________.
____________________________
Signature of Submissive
I offer my acceptance of submission
by ______________________________ under the terms
stated above on this the ________ day of ______________ in the
year ________.
____________________________
Signature of Dominant
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