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3/1/99
subject: Thank you for the instuction.

MrBadSir^

Thank you for the instruction Sat night... This is Jim .... I think my time watching you work was the most instructive of the night... I would like to know where I can find the UV device...any suggestions for the beginning Top's shopping list ( no sense wasting money on unnecessary or extraneous equipment - at least not in the beginning )

Again, thank you,

Jim

Jim,

First toys? Hmm a "thuddy" flogger is essential. Thick soft leather fingers and no sharp cuts on the ends. A pair of nipple clamps. Never use them for more than ten - fifteen minutes MAX. a paddle or "ruler" is handy. And essential also... Bunny fur. Now the woman I played Saturday doesn't like it that much. in after care.. but it is a must have. A Feather or other contrasting and sensual textures. A blindfold should be in the toy bag early on. And your own cuffs and rings if you seriously expect to travel and play. If your partner has agreed to sexual play I would reccomend a small butt plug be discussed early on. You buy this for your partner as a rule since it is a personal toy. He or she keeps and cleans it themself. It can be part of a ritual you demand or expect when you are unable to meet for a time.

The leather goods like the thuddy flogger and cuffs and such will be the best quality if you buy them from someone like Korwin who was with us. He is a Master Toy maker and his E mail link is....

darksyde@main.com

Also your kit should have condoms. (Not so much for you but for insertable toys that one might share or wish to use.) and good pair of blunt end sissors, a few Antiseptic and First Aid items.

You will want to purchase SM 101 from Greenery Press. And after that you might consider some of the other books. Screw the Roses or the Topping Book.

As for the Violet Wand.. most folks loves them and want them.. a few loath them.

You can find electical toys on my web site.

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I bought mine at Leather Forever in Houston in the Montrose on Fairview down the block from Leather by Boots.

I wouldn't be in a hurrry to get the Violet Wand. Toys do NOT make the Dom. Some of my best scenes were accomplished by hair pulling nipple torture and hand spanking all with nothing but imagination and bare hands.

Enjoyed the evening and had a good time with you all. Keep the questions coming. What I can't answer I will find answers for or steer you to the place to find them.

Good luck with it all.