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Testimonials I met the one I named longstem online in the summer of 1997. We met real life one time for a weekend where she was able to attend a munch and an EROS party as part of her first experiences. We worked a lot long distance as she lives several hours away. She made some amazing transitions as she discovered the safety of responsible D/s exploration. In October 2001 she was collared to Duggan, a gentleman she has been most dutifully in service to. They married in March of 2002 and both remain very dear friends of mine / ours. on occasion I have the pleasure of visiting with Duggan and longstem who is now called" cutekitten" or "kitten" for short. Some time after our first encounters, longstem found me on line one day and sent the following note to me. -------------------- 12 / 8 / 1998 I discovered I was learning about more than just a "kinky sex" thing. Honestly, I wasn't looking for that. Though, my whole life that is what I had always heard it referred to as. I don't guess I really knew what I was looking for, but I found what has essentially save me, and enlightened me more than I knew possible. I learned that there are so many more sides to life than I had taken the time to see. Pain isn't always bad. It reminds us how alive we are. And cold can burn as much as hot. I learned not to take other people's opinions on things, but to find and experience them for myself. And that included some serious life lessons. I had gotten to where I was taking other people's opinions about myself and believing them, rather than forming my own. I learned that someone taking a Dominant position in a relationship does not have to include abuse. Just because I am submissive doesn't mean I am dirt to be walked upon, but it actually shows how strong I can be. When i look back at things now, i see my "idea" of someone who was Dominant was the equivalant to bully...and submissive was the place for a bully to wipe their feet. Sir helped me see how distorted that view was. Training with DaddyJ helped me literally change my life. I was in a terrible marriage. The lessons I learned from Sir about D/s were the foundation of the backbone to leave the situation. But it didn't stop there. I saw in him a model for a man that I would one day like to meet. A man who treats a woman with respect, kindness, though a firmness that is unmistakable. He showed me that I could do anything I put my mind to, and I am doing that now. He showed me what it was like to FEEL alive again. Sir touched my soul in every aspect from how I enteracted with the world, my exhusband, my child, and even how I percieved my religion. Showing me that submission to God was much more than just meely mouthed lip service.
The things I learned from DaddyJ influence me daily. Thank you so much Sir for taking the time with a rather lost soul who happened to wander into your channel one night. You forever hold a special place in my heart. And though those simple words "Thank you" seems to be so inadequate, they are all I have to offer. Thank you again, Sir for showing me how to feel alive again. Thank God for bringing you into my life.
PLEASE if you are considering meeting someone from on line... examine the Safe Meeting pages before your rendezvous.
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