DEEP THROAT

Okay, I didn't write this one either. But it is useful and I consider it an important part of sexual service training. An aside: A dear friend tells of her college days when dorm sisters used to practicce with peeled bananas and compete to see who could do the best. (She was very skilled at it I should note )

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WHAT IS DEEPTHROAT?

Deepthroat is a variation of Fellatio where the entire length of an erect penis is taken into the mouth and throat without gagging.

IS IT POSSIBLE TO CONTROL THE GAG REFLEX?

Yes. Just as those who wear contact lenses condition themselves not to blink when placing a lens on the eyeball, you can condition yourself not to gag when a penis enters your throat.

CAN ANYONE CONDITION THEMSELVES TO PERFORM DEEPTHROAT?

Again, yes. However there are some limitations. An example would be someone with a small oral cavity attempting to slide a large penis into the throat. However, the average woman can easily deepthroat the average penis. Extremes, either way, are rare.

IS IT REALLY WORTH ALL THE EFFORT REQUIRED TO CONDITION THE GAG REFLEX?

Once again a resounding YES! When you see your man moan with pleasure as you do things to his penis that most men only dream of! It's especially fulfilling to deepthroat some one that isn't expecting it. Their eyes grow as large as a Silver Dollar when you slide the whole length in for the first time.

WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE TO THE MAN?

Most men say that when fully deepthroated, they feel a very pleasurable "ring of tightness" encircling the penis just below the head with the sensation concentrated on the underside of the penis. (The area on the underside of the penis just below the head is the most sensitive region. When done correctly, you can bring your man to a very powerful orgasm by sucking and licking on this spot)

ARE THERE ANY OTHER ADVANTAGES TO PERFORMING DEEPTHROAT?

Yes. If you don't like the taste of semen but your partner wants to ejaculate in your mouth, while performing deepthroat the head of the penis is in so deeply that is past your taste buds on the back of the tongue. This doesn't eliminate the taste completely, but it is not quite as strong when done this way. Some women also have the tendency to gag when their partner ejaculates in the mouth. Again here conditioning will help you overcome the gag reflex. You begin by taking small amounts of semen into your mouth until you become used to the taste and texture.

WHICH FEELS BETTER FOR THE MAN; EJACULATING IN THE MOUTH OR EJACULATING IN THE THROAT?

It's all a matter of personal preference. When he ejaculates in your mouth you can increase his pleasure by swirling your tongue around the head of the penis. When he ejaculates in your throat, you can lick his scrotum, which is equally pleasurable, albeit a different sensation.

TELL ME MORE ABOUT LICKING THE SCROTUM

This is considered an advanced technique and shouldn't be tried until you are comfortable and confident in your deepthroating skills.

ARE THERE ANY OTHER 'ADVANCED TECHNIQUES'?

Yes. It involves actually making a swallowing motion with the entire length of the penis laying on your tongue and in your throat. This is really advanced and shouldn't be tried until you are completely comfortable with licking the scrotum with the whole length of the penis in your mouth.

TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE 'SWALLOWING' MOTION

When you use the muscles required in swallowing, you will create an entirely different sensation separate from the sensation of basic deepthroating. You will be using the muscles in your throat to 'massage' the length of his penis. You can quickly bring him to orgasm when you have fully mastered this technique.

OK, LETS GET STARTED. HOW DO YOU BEGIN?

First, you want to be as relaxed as possible. Take a long, hot bubble-bath. Drink a glass of wine. Put on some relaxing music. Or, have your partner give you a hot oil massage. Just do whatever it takes to fully relax you. You want to be as comfortable as possible. Before you begin, tell your partner not to rush you as you are learning the deepthroat technique (he will, naturally, be anxious). You probably won't be able to deepthroat your first time out. In fact, it may take a few weeks before you are able to fully deepthroat his penis with out gagging. The key to conditioning your throat is to do it in small, incremental steps (Those of you who wear contact lenses will understand this). Positioning is very important when performing deepthroat. The best to begin is in the 'female superior' position. That is where you control how much of the penis enters your mouth and throat. (Later, you can try the 'male superior' position. This is done with you laying on your back across the bed with you head hanging off the edge. This position allows your partner to put his penis as deeply in your throat as he wants. This too is an advanced technique and shouldn't be attempted until you have mastered basic deepthroat) You want to be able to tip your head in a way that aligns your mouth and throat. First, thoroughly lubricate the penis. Lubrication is VERY important. A lubricated penis slides across your tongue more easily.

After the penis is lubricated, tilt your head in a way to make as straight a path possible from your mouth to your throat. Extend your tongue to just past your lower lip, then flatten the back of your tongue as a Doctor would when he uses a tongue depressor to look in your throat. Next, force your throat open as if yawning. Doing this helps counter the gag reflex. Slide the penis across your tongue as far as you can with out gagging, hold it there for 10 seconds, then slide it back out. Now, repeat this process for as long as you find it comfortable. I would recommend at least 10 to start. Relax for a few minutes, then repeat the entire process again. The first night, I would not do this step for longer than 10 minutes. (remember to remind your partner not to rush you through this stage) You will have to be the judge on how much is enough. Once you are comfortable with this step, take the penis in to the point where you almost feel the urge to gag. Hold the penis there for 10 seconds. When you feel the urge to gag, force your throat open again as if yawning. After some time, this will condition the muscles in your throat to easily expand. You will also be able to take in more and more of the penis as you continue conditioning. You need to perform at a speed that is comfortable to you. On the average, you should continue you conditioning at least 4 nights a week (more if you feel comfortable). You should gradually increase the time you condition from 10 minutes to a full 30 minutes. It may take you a week to 10 days or even longer. Just remember to continue at a pace that is comfortable and allows you to practice longer each night. Eventually before you know it, you will have swallowed your man's penis whole! Let me tell you that the first time you can take in his entire length and hold it there for as long as you want (remember to come up for air!) is a moment you won't soon forget! Only when you can hold his penis in your mouth indefinitely, or when you need to take it out to breathe, you can begin working on the advanced techniques. Again, when engaged in advanced conditioning, small, incremental steps are best.

One final thought: Some people think that deepthroat is forcing your tongue up against the roof of your mouth and then cramming the penis in the space that is left. WRONG! When you are performing deepthroat properly, your tongue will be slightly extended past your lower lip, the back of your tongue will be flat so the penis can easily slide in and out of your throat and the penis will be thoroughly lubricated! Anything less is not really deepthroat!

Good luck in your endeavor!

See also Performing Fellatio at Sexuality.com