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A FIRST ENCOUNTER "From OnLine to RealTime" March 21, 1999 I recently had the incredible opportunity to explore for the first time D/s in real life. I've been exploring online via "IRC" for about 3 years now, and in that time i have become fascinated, addicted, intrigued, and very much drawn to the D/s bdsm lifestyle. For the most part it's been fantasy exploring, my imagination along with the help of some very creative play partners (DOMS)...many of which have helped me learn about this lifestyle, as well as helping me to explore my "submission". In exploring online i've done many scenes, and when in a scene and a DOM has used a flogger on me or various crops, paddles, canes, whatever happened to be the flavor of the night, all i could do was try to imagine how those items would feel as the blows were landed. I do have a very good imagination, and i can honestly say, in some of my exploring online, i have felt the strong emotions that are behind the relationship of Master and slave, and in an intense scene i have truly felt the "CONTROL" the Master has over me.... I believe, when exploring D/s the emotional connection between the Master and slave is strong and intense, emotionally more intense then any vanilla relationship i've ever been in. For me, my exploring will not ever be 24/7.... i am happily married, and i have 2 boys.. one will be two years old in May, the other is just 2 months old. My husband is pretty much vanilla, however with much encouragement and wonderful advice from Bad^, i have introduced a little of the D/s bdsm to him. Bad^ at one time helped me plot a surprise "overnight adventure" for my husband and i, that included a limo, his favorite meal and an overnight stay at a very nice hotel... very romantic time spent at a time in our relationship that really needed a boost. Bad^ gave me some ideas on how to introduce a little bdsm to my husband and he was very open to it... was some very light bondage, with one of His silk ties, i managed to get him to spank my ass a bit, though his smacks were more like lil luv pats...lol... he tried though, and i was happy as i could be that he was open enough to the idea to have a little fun with it. I do not need to live this D/s bdsm lifestyle 24/7 but what i choose to do is explore it when the opportunities come up. Bad^ recently gave me that very opportunity, my first..... I have known Bad^ for about two years on IRC, and we have a very close friendship. He knows me well, and knows the desires i've had to explore further then just my "online" time..... and also he has seen me struggle with fears and doubts.... and other issues that have prevented me from having the courage to take the step to real time exploring. Many move from online to real life..and many have wonderful experiences....and some have very bad experiences... the issue of "trust"....is critical. Bad^ and i decided to finally meet for lunch recently, and i just loved the idea of finally getting to sit down face to face and talk to this DOM i have known over IRC for the past couple years. We met at a public place and had lunch and we sat and talked for hours... i was a nervous wreck before he arrived, and when we met he walked up to me and gave me the warmest hug i have ever had in my life. He could feel me trembling, and he held me and told me to take some deep breaths... to relax, his voice was calming and He was simply wonderful. Being the good lil submissive i am, (grin) i did what i was told and took several deep breaths and let me body just relax. Within a few minutes i was calm and we sat down and started talking, and the time flew by. After lunch we found some privacy, and he brought with Him HIS Toy Bag...and this Bag was HUGE...lol i know i looked like a kid at Christmas as He was going through the bag, and bringing out the different toys and devices. He wanted to show me what all these things actually looked like.... the things i have only had mental images up till that moment. He had a mix of so much in the bag. I was surprised at all the different types of floggers... all of which had a different feel and affect, and sound. He went through and explained what each device and toy was... and he tried to give me a little taste of How some of them felt... though we were not in a place that allowed for much use of them, HE still was able to give me an idea, and a feel for some of the items... for the first time i felt a flogger land on my back... the sting of a wicked little paddle...His firm grip on my hair, pulling my head back exposing my throat, i felt the blade of both his knives against my skin...he showed me various restraints, cuffs... nipple clips, also alot of soft feathery things...he explained in a session there is a mix of sensations...from soft, to harsh..... He gave me a little taste, a little tease of what these things can do in the hand of a skilled DOM.... enough to give me a desire for more *eg*. At the end of our visit, he gave me my first spanking..*smile*...it was an experience that far exceeded any fantasy images i had of what it might feel like. i was bent over a seat and held on and he landed some very hard SWATS to my ass, and i have to say they were HARD. As he landed each SWAT, and i felt the sting, and the bit of pain burn into my ass my mind went completely blank... i heard Him say "thank you Sir"....reminding me that I was supposed to be saying that as He landed his SWATS... i repeated the line, and felt another Hard SWAT....i softly said "thank You Sir"....and he hit me with another...."thank You Sir" then another SWAT...and this went on till He was finished. i have trouble finding words to describe the "glow".... its a feeling i never had before. It hurt but I liked it.. No LOVED it. I just melted with his contact. When he landed a couple of the smacks... i felt a rush inside mmmmm.... its so hard to explain ...Not at all what you expect a spanking to be like. i didn't expect that "rush" feeling all through my body i thought i'd just feel the sting on my ass..... some pain there.....and would be sorta erotic feelings....but what i felt was all through my body He gave me another one of His WARM hugs and i thanked Him for the experience, and for meeting me. After we parted I had to see his work I pulledinto a gas station and in the restroom I pulled down my pants to see the warmest red cheeks glowing back at me. I smiled. I left feeling so good... i am very happy i took the opportunity to explore, it opened my eyes to D/s bdsm, and confirmed what i already knew... i love it, and i want more! The best part of that day was meeting my friend Bad^, and spending some time with him. Thank You Sir.... rockme Bad Note: rockme followed safety proceedures by telling somone who she was meeting and where... agreeing to meet in a public place and the light spanking was done in the presence of another submissive who assured her safety and consensual play. PLEASE if you are considering meeting someone from on line... examine the Safe Meeting pages before your rendezvous. content and images © copyright 1999 D/s Web Center

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