Earning His
Golden Rings
On Saturday January 10,1999
my slave raven gave herself to me for her first gential piercing.
She deferred all jewelry and decisions to me. I did examine
several types of piercings on Whipping
Post piercing and body modification pages. I chose a set
of 12 gauge gold rings with silver captives, at a squeaky
clean APP accredited shop Taurian's.
raven is a most experienced
and well mannered slave. Her piercing experience took her
deep into sub space with little pain if any. My wife T accompanied
me for this event as well.
raven was assigned to write her experiences
to share with Whipping Post guests. Herein is her work at that
assignment.
2/11/99
i have been requested to write
about the piercings i received in January of this year. It
is my pleasure to share with others.
On the 10th of January i was
granted the honor of two gold rings with sterling silver captive
beads placed in my outer labia. These were chosen, as was
their location, by BadSir. More important than this was the
fact that both BadSir and His wife T, were with me to share
in the joy! Yes, i am one of His chained submissives.
A little history might help,
so...The first time i had ever seen any genital piercings
was about 3 years ago on a friend of mine who is also a submissive.
Her Dominant/husband had the rings placed on her outer labia
as a part of their collaring ritual. i, at first, thought
OUCH! that had to hurt! Then as i talked with her about it
i began to understand it really didn't (not as much as you
would think), and it had so much more meaning to it. As time
went on i thought more about the meaning and symbolism. Inside
i began to realize that this was such an honor and i wished
for the day when i could give my submission to someone who
would grant me this privilege.
i remember talking with Sir
on several occasions about my passion for the rings and what
they represented to me. We actually talked about several piercings
and even tattoos. As my service to Him grew i gave Him total
control over where, when, what and even if i was to get any
of the things we discussed. I wanted to earn the right to
bear the rings.
i had thought several times
about getting the piercings done on my own but it never seemed
right. It was not something i could just do for and by myself.
To me this was something to be earned, a symbol of the commitment
to serve. His rings are more than just pretty jewelry. They
are special BECAUSE they were granted to me by my Dominant.
Leading up to my getting pierced
was several weeks of teasing and innuendo about my being pierced
"somewhere" in that region but i was never told
exactly what He planned on putting where. i had images of
clit hood piercings, inner and outer labial rings and even
fourchette or triangle piercings. The not knowing added to
the excitement of actually getting pierced.
On the Sunday of the piercing
we had a good day. The entire clan went to the barn to visit
my mare. It was kind of a special day for me all around. Then
the evening came and the time had come.
i had asked T if she would please
be there with me also and she was more than pleased to join.
i was so happy to have these two very special people with
me. We went to Taurian's ( they are wonderful there).
We went to the counter and Sir
told them we wanted 2 outer labia rings. Eventually there
may be six, but for now just the center two. i was elated
to hear this. We looked over the types of rings and i looked
to Sir for His choice. T helped also. Sir chose 14 carat gold
rings. Sir has rings with hematite stone captive balls in
His ears and his nipples, but they were not recommended for
this area so He chose sterling silver captive balls. They
look beautiful. These are 12 gauge.
We waited about 20 minutes after
finishing the paper work on the piercings. Then it was time
to get pierced and i was shaking. i wanted this so much but
i was still nervous. Sir went with me and helped me relax
using techniques He has been teaching me. Breathing and focusing.
First i was standing as Michael,
one of the employees, marked the outer labial ridge. He took
his time and was very careful and professional. Then i reclined
and Michael spent about 15 minutes or so aligning the marks
for the rings with the same dedication to accuracy. All through
this Sir helped me relax and i was really feeling no anxiety
any longer.
Michael explained how the marks
and the rings were just slightly off from each other so the
rings would lie one just ahead of the other when i stood or
walked and allowed Sir to approve of the placement before
proceeding.
T came in for the piercing (
i was so glad she was there). She held one hand and Sir stood
on the opposite side coaching me to relax. Michael explained
exactly what he was doing. First, of course, was the cleaning
and prep of the area. Numerous changing of gloves to keep
everything clear of contamination was the rule of the day.
Then a clamp was placed on the ridge of the labia and Michael
told me to take a deep breath and he pierced me on the exhale.
There was a definite pinch for a second but then just an awareness
of the piercing. It really doesn't hurt, honest!
It was described to me by Sir
as a needle with the piercing ring in the hub of it, passed
through the labia into a cork. Then as the needle threads
through the ring follows and is shaped and the captive ball
placed..TADAH! Done!
The procedure is repeated for
the other side (each side has it's own sterile equipment)
And i was now the proud bearer of His rings and the most elated
submissive around. A special joy was when Michael asked Sir
if i was permitted to see the rings. It gave me a tingle to
know he realized the special relationship we share. Sir just
smiled and said yes.
Michael then went over the proper
care of the new piercings again and allowed me to ask any
questions ( worth mentioning here is that it is not recommended
to go from a hot tub to a cold pool or shower as this will
cause the gold rings to split at the top! ) The healing time
on this piercing is 4 to 6 months. i have found that with
dedicated cleaning and care the healing is progressing very
quickly for me. We all heal at different rates so don't worry
if it takes longer. (My only down side to this is i can't
get into the hot tub until i am fully healed for heath reasons
:pout!:)
T and Sir said the rings are
beautiful...i agree they are. They are more than just simple
rings. They represent a lot to this submissive and i am thankful
for the privilege and honor to wear them, which i do with
pride and joy. They are the physical reminder that i belong
to Sir in all facets. They mean i have found my place to kneel.
Thank You, Sir!
His devoted slave,
Raven
P.S. If anyone wishes to ask me anything
about His rings or my submission please reply to this webMaster.
i am always glad to share.
Bad^s closing remarks
I have a friend on line. Measta
is slowly dying of Hepatitis C, for there is no know cure
...only hope of remission. She has two young daughters. She
contracted the disease in the late 70's when it wasn't even
identified as the third type of Hepatitis. She went on a whim
and got a tattoo in a small shop in San Francisco.and possible
contracted it there. What was a whim in her youth may well
deny her the chance to see her children grow and have children
of their own. She is a dynamic person and is working to develop
a support group for the many folks who suffer from this life
draining affliction.
Don't make decisions about body modification
lightly. Choose only members of the Association of Professional Piercers.
Here at home in Houston I choose Taurian Body Piercing. In Austin where all my personal piercings have been done, I use Forbidden Fruit.
For the record I have had my tongue pierced
two times. I gave the first one up three months after I did
it because I neglected to downsize the rod after the swelling
went away. I re-did it May of 1998 along with both nipples.
My tongue is a 12 gauge now. and my nipples 14 gauge rings
with hematite captives. IN May of 99 I went to 12 guage in
the nipples. I also have two ear piercings one up hi both
rings with hematite. I have also pierced submissive epiphany
with a clit hood peircing the same weekend as raven. My wife
also have posts in her belly button nipples and tongue as
well as the afore mentioned "monroe" beauty mark
on her face. She has since removed the nipple bars to afford
more comfort and oral attention.
My advice....Examine thoroughly the shop
and it's procedures. Learn what an autoclave is and how proper
sterile packaging of instruments works. Any good piercer will
show you these things. Learn completely the kind of work being
done, the after care and supplies needed.
Remember: A tattoo or piercing doesn't look
half as good when you are laying in a hospital bed or a coffin.
That said.. go and explore and
make your marks in the world!
